Is there such a thing as a midlife crisis? Discuss the idea of a midlife crisis

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Is there such a thing as a midlife crisis? Discuss the idea of a midlife crisis in terms of the physical, cognitive, and psychosocial changes in middle adulthood. Also:

If you believe there is such a thing as a midlife crisis, what developmental changes in middle adulthood might be the cause? Why do some middle-aged people experience it and others do not?

If you do not believe that a midlife crisis exists, explain why you think this myth perpetuates in our society. What developmental changes (or perhaps stages, i.e. Erikson or Maslow) might be mistaken for a midlife crisis?

Explanation / Answer

As we all are imperfect, when we reach middle age we are almost certain to have missed some goals or be searching for new things to achieve. We are likely to have more money than when we were young, and in a consumerist society, the societal expectation that we will spend it. Having bought life’s essentials, this only leaves luxury goods. Sadly, some people will be bored or exasperated with their existing partner and in many cases might seek someone offering more sexual excitement. Thus, people displaying so-called midlife crisis symptoms should not surprise us. However, if the mid-life crisis is an inevitable problem for humans, then everyone should experience it. But even the most vociferous supporters of the concept have only ever claimed that a minority (e.g. a fifth or less) of the population will have it. People on relatively low incomes might not have the wherewithal to do many of the archetypal mid-life crisis behaviours. Again, people can buy fancy cars or take up a new activity without being driven by angst or a feeling of compensating for imagined failings. But this does not mean that we can airily dismiss the mid-life crisis as a product of over-active imaginations. In a limited number of people, changes in mid-life, or an awakening self-perception of life slipping away, of failure, etc, can lead to serious psychiatric problems, such as depression. In other cases, the onset of depression might manifest itself in ‘mid-life’ crisis behaviours. Nor should people who are not middle aged imagine that they cannot have a crisis of identity or purpose. Doubts over career choice, the enforced change of status due to retirement or widowhood can all have similar effects. For women, and to some extent men, hormones are shifting and declining and they may be experiencing some physical changes that may be upsetting. The realization that you may have reached your peak and now are starting down the “other side of the hill” can be alarming. For some, these changes are too much to handle, and they experience some “crisis.” Each person handles these events differently. Like everything else in life, midlife is unique to each and how they handle it is also unique. Much of your response to midlife is predicated on how you have taken care of yourself in the preceding years. Your mental attitude, your ability to adapt to change and deal with stress, and your confidence in who you are as a person all come into play. To an extent, you get to choose how you deal with midlife. You get to choose whether or not to eat properly, to exercise, to keep your mind healthy, to establish and maintain great relationships, to know who you are and what you want, etc. All these choices impact how well you navigate midlife. Due to time limit,any remaining questions can be asked as another question,they will be answered,thankyou for your cooperation

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