Tony, Claire, and Beth were the best of friends through high school. Tony and Be

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Tony, Claire, and Beth were the best of friends through high school.  Tony and Beth attended the same college and began dating each other in their sophomore year.  After graduation they announced their engagement and Beth asked Claire to be her maid of honor.  About six months before the wedding, Beth's mother became ill.  Since Beth was unemployed, her father asked her if she could stay home and take care of her mother.  Because her mother needed her constantly, Beth found little time to spend with Tony.  Although Tony became quite lonely, he was very understanding and tried to be as supportive as he could.

    Two months passed and Beth's mother's condition worsened.  Given the circumstance, Claire offered to help Beth to call off the wedding.  However Beth explained that the wedding was now even more important to her mother than it was before and that she had no intention of calling it off.  Claire understood and continued to be a supportive friend both to Beth and Tony.  Knowing Beth's fragile emotional condition and Tony's feelings of loneliness, Claire made a point of spending time with both of them.

     One evening Claire met Tony for dinner, and noticed while dining that he was very quiet.  She asked him if there was something bothering him, other than the obvious circumstance with Beth and her mother.  Tony paused for a moment and asked Claire if she could keep a secret.  Claire warmly assured Tony that he could tell her anything.  He proceeded to confess that he had had a brief affair shortly after Beth's mother became ill.  After his confession, Tony told Claire how grateful he was to have gotten all of that off his chest and thanked Claire for being such a good friend.  Still, Claire was speechless.

    The following week, Beth called Claire and asked her to help her pick out a restaurant for the rehearsal dinner.  Beth and Claire spent the afternoon driving around visiting restaurants.  In the car Beth mentioned that she thought that Tony seemed a little preoccupied for the past month, but also added that the last few times they were together he seemed like his old self again.  She then asked Claire for her opinion about whether "something was going on with Tony".  

Directions:  You are Claire and have decided that this is over your head and you have no idea what to do.  You know from your Ethics course at Wake Tech Community College, Aristotle would have something to say about friendship and the virtues.  Since he is dead, you must decide what to do based on your reading of the Nicomachean Ethics.  You can use Books I, II or VIII and/ or a combination of all three.  Make sure you address all of the issues below.

What would Aristotle claim you should do in this this situation? This is your claim or thesis.

Provide Evidence for that claim. These are the reasons he would say this.

What would he say about Tony?

What would he say about Beth and her obligation to parents and or Tony?

Make sure to hit upon striking the mean, habituating the virtues and true friendship for each of the above questions.

Try to keep your opinions out and just focus on what Aristotle would have to say. Take a look at the rubric

for this exam to know how this will be graded.

Note: I am just confused about where to start addressing this topic. Any help about how aristotle would view this situation would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

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I am just confused about where to start addressing this topic.

You can start by what Aristotle said about true friendship and imperfect friendships. For example: a true friendship only arises when one person wants good for another person and think of their good will without the component of pleasure involved. Also, there is no component of utility. For example, in this case, when tony has disclosed a fact, it is not for the goodwill of Claire or Beth. It is for his own pleasure, where he felt guilty about doing something and in order to take the guilt off, he disclosed the fact to Claire.

In this case, Claire is meeting tony for his goodwill, since, she thought that the situations have turned such that tony has become lonely, and if she is spending time with him, he might not feel isolated. Also,Claire wants to spend time with Beth so that she could relieve some of her stress.

In true friendship, pleasure is not the only aspect or source of true love for one another. Though, if Claire tells Beth that Tony had an affair, might upset her, but it would be for the greater good. Momentarily, she might feel stressed or angry, but when Claire tells her, she wouldn’t be hiding an important fact about Beth’s future life partner. If tony thinks of Claire as a true friend, he would understand the reason of Claire disclosing this to Beth, and if it was only for utility, the friendship might die.

Hence, according to Aristotle, Claire should be telling Beth about what tony has done. This is also important since Beth has had some hunches about a different behaviour. This would help her in making a better decision about whether she should or should not continue with tony, since in a crucial time when she wouldn’t be available he might be in line to cheat.

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