Name: Date Due: Class Meeting Time: Journal: Personal Responsibility (Victim/Cre

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Name: Date Due: Class Meeting Time: Journal: Personal Responsibility (Victim/Creator and Wise Choice Process) In this journal, you will demonstrate the use of Creator language, apply the Wise Choice Process to resolve a challenging situation in your life and reflect on your decision-making process. Please type your answers to the tasks below on a separate page. Task 1: Reflect on the "Language of Responsibility" exercise and remember how you changed Victim statements to Creator language. Describe one situation from your past in which you responded as a Victim, using Victim language. Now that you have knowledge of the language of personal responsibility, how would you respond to the same situation with a Creator mindset? Task 2: Think of a current problem or challenge you are experiencing. Make sure the challenge is one that you feel comfortable sharing with your classmates and instructor. As a result of this challenge, you may feel angry, sad, frustrated, overwhelmed, afraid or even have positive emotions. The challenge may be related to school, a relationship, your job, your family, or your money. Using the six steps of the Wise Choice Process will help you make an empowering choice in any of these parts of your life Use the questions below to work through the Wise Choice Process for the problem or challenge you have identified. What is my current situation? (Describe the problem objectively and completely) How would I like my situation to be? (Describe your ideal future outcome to the challenge.) What are my possible choices? (Create a numbered list of at least three specific ways to create your ideal outcome.) What's the likely outcome of each possible choice? (If you can't predict the likely outcome of an option, stop and gather more information.) 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Which choice(s) will I commit to doing? (Pick from your list of choices in Step 3) 6. When and how will evaluate my plan? (Identify the specific date and criteria by which you will determine the success of your plan.) Task 3: Dive deep as you respond to the questions below. 1. 2. 3. How do you usually choose solutions to your problems or challenges? Describe two ways the Wise Choice Process differs from your usual problem-solving method. How could the use of the Wise Choice Process help you to be a more successful student? Total Improvement Needed 867654 8 67654 Meeting Unsatisfactory 3 2 10 3 2 10 For Instructor Use Only Expectations 13 12 11 10 9 Content Self-Reflection Professional Appearance 13 12 11 10 9 (30 points

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TASK 1 ( LANGUAGE OF RESPONSIBILITY)

situation (feelings of inferior & depressed because of not consuming alcohol)

VICTIM LANGUAGE: "I'm feeling so dumb and inferior to others. My classmates are mocking at me. This is making me so depressed. The reason is just that i don't drink liquor like they do. It is because it is consider as prohibited in my religion and i don't want to spoil my liver. I have faced lots and lots of insults and social media abuses because of this"

CREATOR LANGUAGE: "I'm feeling inferior, but i can get through it by applying some simple meditation and relaxation techniques. Even my classmates mock at me, seriously in this busy world who cares to barking of street dogs or even i'll complain about them to the staffs. Ya I don't consume alcohol and i'm really proud of it as i can have control over my sense and i'll be much healthier than you and also my body parts will be stronger than yours. If i get troubled in social media because of this reason probably i'll be proud of this and insults, now i know better way to handle it."

TASK 2

situation ( RESEARCH PROJECT SUBMISSION )

WISE CHOICE PROCESS

4. Likely outcomes will be

5. I'll surely have regular contact with my guide (THIS WILL PROBABLY FULFILL MY ALL OTHER CHOICES)

6. By the end of this semester i'll probably evaluate my plans. By just having the final submission of our project work i'll compare my quality of work with my class.

TASK 3

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